Inside Anne Heche’s former relationship with Ellen DeGeneres

Anne Heche and Ellen DeGeneres are now considered one of the first lesbian power couples in Hollywood, but their debut was not met with open arms at the time.

Heche – who is currently fighting for her life after a fiery crash last week left her in “critical condition” – opened up about her once-controversial romance in 2020.

The “Six Days, Seven Nights” star, now 53, shared on Season 29 of “Dancing With the Stars” that she met the comedian, now 64, at a Vanity Fair party in 1997, saying it changed her life “forever.”

However, when it came time for the couple to make their red carpet debut at Heche’s film premiere for “Volcano” in 1997, she was allegedly told her job would be in jeopardy if she went public with the affair.

“I had told them that I was taking Ellen as my date and I was told if I took Ellen, I would lose my Fox contract,” the actress alleged. “At that moment, she took my hand and said, ‘Do what they say,’ and I said, ‘No thanks.’”

Anne Heche and Ellen DeGeneres hugging on a red carpet.
Anne Heche and Ellen DeGeneres dated from 1997 to 2000.
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Heche said she took DeGeneres to the event against her movie studios’ wishes – but the pair were “ushered out by security before the movie even ended.” The actress was allegedly told she was not allowed to go to her “own after-party, for fear they would get pictures of me with a woman.”

However, the incident did not deter the women from continuing to date and their romance lasted three-and-a-half years. Despite their tight bond, it wasn’t always copacetic between the “Vanished” actress and “Finding Dory” star.

Heche hinted in April 2021 that DeGeneres tried to control the way she dressed when they were together.

While recently reviewing her red carpet looks over the years for a TikTok video, Heche posted a photo of her and DeGeneres at the 1998 Golden Globes.

“Why do I look like a hippie? It’s because Ellen didn’t want me to dress sexy,” she said of the ensemble.

Heche’s relationship with DeGeneres affected much more than her appearance.

“I didn’t do a studio picture for 10 years,” the “Save Me” star claimed to Page Six in October 2021. “I was fired from a $10 million picture deal and did not see the light of day in a studio picture .”

However, Heche had no regrets about dating DeGeneres, noting, “Those repercussions that happened, are to me what has created a part of the change. I’m a part of it. It’s a badge of honor.”

Anne Heche and Ellen DeGeneres on a red carpet together.
Heche and DeGeneres’ split was reportedly amicable.
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Heche and DeGeneres called it quits for good in August 2000. They released a joint statement to People at the time that read, “It is an amicable parting and we greatly value the 3 1/2 years we have spent together.”

DeGeneres told the Los Angeles Times a year later that the split was a surprise to her.

“She walked out the door and I haven’t spoken to her since, I don’t have the answers,” the former “Ellen DeGeneres Show” host claimed.

Heche went on to marry Coleman Laffoon from 2001 to 2009 and they share a 20-year-old son, Homer. She also shares 13-year-old son Atlas with reformer “Men in Trees” co-star, James Tupper, whom she dated until 2018.

Meanwhile, DeGeneres has been married to actress Portia de Rossi since 2008.


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